30 May 2018

The kid .

Not finding much of time with so much to do at home . Meanwhile , I took a summer painting class at Chennai for a month. Thought of teaching what I know to the kids . I realized that teaching is not an easy job . I had to be very patient enough with the kids . They were all below 7 years of age . They have No idea about the colours or how to use the brush . This is all fine .


There are so many things that I observed in the parents.I normally love observing than talking .


Particularly I am mentioning few behaviours here which are not that great towards a kid .


1. Never slap you kid .Slapping them won't help in any way .


Instance - his mother lied to me and he told me it' a lie so she slapped him in front of me .


2.Never keep scolding your child at your home .


Instance - when painting he started crying .When asked he said his mum keeps beating him at home .


3.Trust you kid .I am.not saying kids wont lie but at first you need to listen to them and then secondly comes the lie or whatever .


4.Never make a scene in front of your kid like crying , telling to make a promise on mother etc .Typical Indian mothers at times .


5.Never talk bad about the father at any cost .You never know what he goes through at his work place and how he sends the money to you . Learn to run a family happily with the money he gives . He has a better sense than you .


6.Give some respect to the father in front of the kid .What you tell about his dad is what he learns and continues.


7.When you leave the kid in a class , please leave him and go . Do not talk or put your nose into  other families personal affairs . Behave•


8.Never degrade an other kid . Every kid and every painting is great .



The kids are spoiled only because of the mothers attitude . At least the ones who came for my classes.


End result was .


We wish we had a mom like you who never scolds or slaps us at home . This might seem funny but actually not .


Please try to sit and talk with them .You have to sacrifice everything to bring up a good human being.  Not easy !!


Few never know the value of a child . They would have got it easily . For people like me who got one after 5 years and left 8 years of working experience all these shows how pathetic few parents are .


Post in your views .

13 May 2018

Amma♡

Today being the mothers day and as it's been some time since i wrote a blog thought of writing few things that I know in my life.

Firstly I don't believe in posting a picture of my mother on Facebook because she is there within and I need not do it because everybody does it .

Whatever I do I think of my mother and 're think if she was alive what she would have done and then continue .

To my mother whom I lost when I was 14 , you are so badly missed by us .
We could never find you in any other person After your death you know that I dint cry and I don't know why .
But , many times I immensely feel sad that you are no more .
There are days when I wanted you with me There are days when I wanted to see you and touch but I know I can't.
Though I have seen your characters in different people in different situations as a whole you can never be replaced .
Though I don't cry or talk about you to others in a corner of my heart I get hurt because of others in someway and think how beautiful it would have been if you were there .
People can say she is like your mother but there is so much difference between like and your.
Let all the mothers stay long life and the world be happy .
A daughter needs her mother all the time .

Sometimes I wish I had the internet connection to heaven .

Love you Amma ♡

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